DON'T JUDGE PEOPLE'S CHOICES
I am writing this because I have dealt with this before so I do understand what it is like to deal with people like this. So let's get right into this shall we. First I will give you my experience then I will tell you why you shouldn't do this.
MY EXPERIENCE
I was just going through my daily life when I got into an arrangement with a family member on my life which for that person to do this is totally wrong. This person thought that I didn't love my father which is entirety untrue I do love my father I am just not gonna put myself through the abuse he put me through as a child. I will not let anyone abuse me like he did which is why I have cut a lot of people out of my life because they were toxic to me and was toxic relationships. Then this person said that what I do which is this blog and my youtube channels. there will be links to both channel at the bottom of this blog if you would like to see them. This person said that my youtube channels will never be a job and I would not make money on them. Well this is right youtube is not a job it is a business. I have been working hard for a year now on my business and I will not let all that hard work go to waste. I have and will always take this blog and my youtube channels seriously. I will always treat this blog and my youtube channels like my businesses. I put the time into write these blogs and the time into making my videos so that you will read/watch them and enjoy them. So I got very angry becuase I don't see this blog or my youtube channels as a "hobby" as that person put it. This person make a comment about my age and that I am still living with my mother. I have never kept that a secret and this person has a husband and 3 kids who aren't her husbands. This person had these kids while she was very young and this person want to attack me for living with my mother who I do take care of and choosing to do something that I love and can do so. So I have not talked to this person since and have no reason to do so I don't have to prove anything to this person who doesn't live my life and doesn't have a clue what I go through on a daily bases.
REASONS WHY YOU SHOULDN'T JUDGE PEOPLE ON THEIR CHOOSES
1. You do not live their life
2. You don't know what they are going though
3. It is not your place to do so
If you can not follow those reasons then you should not speak to that person because if you state your option of what you think they should choose only 2 things will happen
1. You will start an arrangement
2. You will lose that person. That person will not want to be a part of your life.
I am just trying to help you out so what happened to me won't happen to you because I have nothing to do with that family member.
As promised here are my youtube channels links
crystal winchester youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClLzcFzYKWbsl_tcPaPTdAQ
crystal winchester vlogs - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4UI_LtTrkBl_5cM3QKRArw