RELATIONSHIPS ARE HARD WORK

Relationships are hard work trust me I know I am in a long distance relationship this guy who I am seeing says he is in the military and will be home soon I really do love him but we have hit a hard time right now because we just had a fight over money which is always the number one problem in relationships I know that too because it is one of many reasons my parents divorced. Look if you are gonna get into a relationship then you need to know that you have to work at for the entire time of the relationship you just don’t stop working at it at a certain point. That is why my mother fell out of love with my father I think my fathers thinking was when he married her he didn’t have to work so hard.

That is not true ask any couple who has been married for 40 plus years and I am sure they will tell you, you never stop working at the relationship. If you stop working on the relationship it won’t take long till you are no longer with that person. My mother only stayed with my father for 20 years for me so that I would have a father in my life not that it makes a difference now