WHY I DON'T SLEEP AROUND

I just don't sleep with someone just because I can. With me if I am gonna sleep you with that means we are in a relationship. There are only 2 rules with me.

1) No sex for the first 90 days of dating.

I don't think waiting for at least 3 months is that big of a deal if you truly want to be with me then you will wait the 90 days.

2) No marriage before a year of dating.

I have this rule because I want to make sure the man wants to be with me not just because. There are some guys not a lot but some will want to marry you just to get a green card and then leave you which is why I say a year of dating.

Something else I will not put up with is calling me names.

You call me names and you think I am still gonna be loving to you? You are stupid to think that. I will not have anything to do with you if you ever start calling me names.

I will not be with you if you ever put your hands on me out of anger. Believe me you put your hands on me I will fight back. I was abused as a child I had no choice in the matter I am an adult now and I will not be abused by anyone ever again.

There are some women who can't live without a man, I am not one of them I can be happy by myself, I don't need a man in my life to be happy don't mix me up with one of those who can't live without a man. So if you think I will miss you once you leave I got some bad news for you I will not be contacting you.